In this episode, Ian and Dawson dive into the concept of "domain" from Dr. Betty Martin’s work—unpacking emotional responsibility, boundaries, consent, and the subtle dynamics of interpersonal communication.
In this episode, Ian and Dawson dive into the concept of "domain" from Dr. Betty Martin’s work—unpacking emotional responsibility, boundaries, consent, and the subtle dynamics of interpersonal communication.
Time Stamps:
00:00 – Intro and Explanation of Domain
00:54 – What Belongs in Your Domain? (Feelings, Body, Beliefs, etc.)
03:12 – Understanding Boundaries vs. Limits
05:28 – Real-Life Example: Work Conflict and Emotional Boundaries
07:03 – Reaching into Someone's Domain: The Fruit Tree Metaphor
13:44 – Trying to Change Others: Personal Story from Dawson
20:21 – Is It Ever Okay to Try and Change Someone?
26:14 – No One Can Make You Feel Anything: A Powerful Truth
33:23 – Accountability vs. Blame in Relationships
39:40 – Understanding Infidelity Through the Lens of Domain
46:58 – Communication Breakdown and Energy Deficits
50:44 – Final Thoughts on Relationships, Domain, and Presence
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